How to sit on his face

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My husband always asks me to sit on his face, but I’m so self conscious about it. Like what if I’m squashing him? Or if my butt smells? 😩 it feels great, but it’s hard for me to relax & enjoy it.

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I also have butt smelling concerns when it comes to face sitting lol

I used to sit on my husband's face all the time, and had the same concern of squashing him haha He always said it was fine, and would tap me if he couldn't breathe. I found that doing it near a wall or something I could kind of lean and hold myself up on made me feel better. That way I wasn't completely sitting on his face, and my thighs wouldn't get so tired from holding myself up.
As for the butt smell, I have heard many men say they love it lol My husband certainly does. It gets him so excited he'll start leaking in his pants ;) Butts naturally smell even if they're not dirty(think poop). They excrete a ton of pheromones, and that can be exciting for many men and women. I would find a way to bring it up with your husband and see if he likes it or not, or if he is indifferent. You could say, "I overheard some lady say her husband like the smell of her butt.." or "I read on WTE that..." and gauge his response. 

@AlienBaby,

I needed this, thanks for sharing

Yeah I like the leaning on some idea I like the couch...you could lan over the arm an even put one leg on the floor if you like.

And maybe try starting in the shower so you kno you’re fresh and clean before you both get there

@0818MamaBear,

I love the shower idea 😍

Oh same🙈🙈🙈 he loves me doing it though so idk hahaha... Feels sooo good but can’t help think I’m doing something wrong hahaha and go all self conscious about it so end up jumping off and going down on him instead hahaha

I’m glad someone asked this. Recently my husband has been asking me to do this and we tried it once and I got super self conscious. Is it that good that it’s worth another try???

@mrsbmomof2,

I'd give it another shot. It can be super fun once you get comfortable enough to let go. For me, it's not really physically better, it's more of a mental thing; like it's something different, maybe a little dirtier than the usual. It can put you more in control...like when I'm on my back it's my husband doing most of the work, with me probably rocking my hips a little. When I sit on his face at first it's him doing his thing, but once I get excited enough I pretty much ride his face lol Grinding on his tongue and so on. He f*ing loves it, so do I.

I only let my husband put his face down there at all, in any position, if i have showered lol (not judging, it hasn't always been this way just how i feel now, super self conscious while pregnant). i have a 2yo also so i shower as often as i can but it's not every day like before we had him. he doesn't nap unless I'm driving and I'm passed out by the time he falls asleep too lol. but as far as face sitting, I've never been comfortable with it. my husband loves it but I'm just not into feeling more dominant in any way. I'll initiate but i dont like feeling like i have more leverage or power. so I'll either get on all 4s in bed and he can do as he likes or I'll get in position on the couch and he can bring his face to me, vs him laying down and me squatting over him.

SO wants me to sit on his face so he can eat the booty. We have wipes in the restroom so I’m constantly using those just in case 😇

Wow!!! nope!! I barely let him eat the v-jayjay... im too self conscious. give him head in any position he wants but I would NEVER sit on his face lol... im sure its nice but I can't see myself doing that.

Just shower! Trust me, your man doesn’t care about the smells- he’s just happy to play out his fantasy and give his lady some pleasure!

Oh man lol my husband wanted to try this but my legs and knees get so weak I want to fall over while shaking . I have a better orgasm when I’m laying down so I can relax

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