Download Article Show Download Article If you’ve ever fallen in love with the wrong person—and haven’t we all at some point?—the notion of “controlling love” probably sounds as realistic as “herding cats.” So maybe you can’t really get in total control of love, but you can find ways to manage it! Here are 12 tips to help you better control your feelings for someone.
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Ask a Question 200 characters left Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Submit Advertisement ReferencesAbout This ArticleArticle SummaryX If you’re trying to cool an existing love, distract yourself from constant thoughts of them by thinking about or doing something else, like calling a friend to talk. On the other hand, if you want to fan the flames of a potential love, work on being present and attentive to them. One thing you can try is looking directly into their eyes to make a stronger connection. For more on how to make love weaker, stronger, or keep it steady, read on! Did this summary help you? Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 186,888 times. Reader Success Stories
Did this article help you?How do you control feelings over someone?Distract yourself from fixating on the person. ... . Do things you really enjoy. ... . Spend more time with others. ... . Give yourself the advice you'd give a friend. ... . Come up with "if-then" plans. ... . Meditate to refocus your thoughts and feelings. ... . Take your time when you choose to pursue love. ... . Stay in the moment with your new flame.. How can I control my feelings for my crush?If you're having a hard time moving on, these 14 tips can help.. Accept your feelings. ... . Give it time. ... . Consider your crush from a realistic perspective. ... . Grieve the loss of what you hoped for. ... . Avoid letting your feelings consume you. ... . Talk about it. ... . Stay off social media. ... . Reframe your feelings.. How can I control my emotions and feelings in a relationship?Actively seek change in your relationship. ... . View the challenges you encounter as opportunities rather than problems. ... . Respect all the feelings you have for each other. ... . Keep the laughter in your love life. ... . Pay attention to how you feel when your lover is not around. ... . Listen to your body, not your mind.. What happens when you suppress your feelings for someone?“Suppressing your emotions, whether it's anger, sadness, grief or frustration, can lead to physical stress on your body. The effect is the same, even if the core emotion differs,” says provisional clinical psychologist Victoria Tarratt.
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