How can I help my parents as a student

Discuss your financial expectations with your newly-minted adult ahead of time. Discuss what they are expected to pay for and what you will provide monetary support for. Keep in mind there are always going to be unexpected costs they could need help with.

If they aren’t already all over the money side of things, some things you could help them with might be meal planning, showing them how expensive groceries are, how to pay a bill, explaining the difference between a credit and debit card. These things will all play a part of their lives at uni.

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Twenty Tips for Developing Positive Relationships with Parents

In our busy day of juggling papers, lesson planning and managing sometimes more than a hundred students, we can easily forget the group that could lend significant support in our charge as teachers -- parents and families. Consider these tips for improving connections with this valuable group:

1. Smile When You See Parents
Greet them. Most parents only occasionally interact with teachers so make sure that at least 90 percent of your encounters with them are positive, warm, and friendly. The impressions left from fleeting encounters in the hallway last a long time.

2. Learn Their Names
(If you have a self-contained class.) Learn how they like to be addressed (Mr. ____? Señora? By their first name?) and how to pronounce them correctly.

3. Declare Your Intention
Tell them that you want to partner with them, that you appreciate their support, and look forward to working together.

4. Communicate Often and in Various Forms
Provide information about what's going on in your class (weekly would be ideal): what students are learning, what they've accomplished, what you're excited about, what they're excited about, and the learning and growth you're seeing. Suggest things that they might ask their child about: "Ask them to tell you about what they learned last week about meal worms," or "Ask them to read you the haiku they wrote."

5. Make a Positive Phone Call Home
If you have a self-contained class, call all homes within the first couple of weeks and then at regular intervals throughout the year. If you teach many students, identify those students who perhaps need a positive call home.

6. Lead with the Good News
Give positive praise first when calling parents or meeting with them to discuss a concern. Every kid has something good about him/her. Find it. Share it. Then share your concern. Adhere strictly to this rule.

7. Find a Translator
If you can't speak their language, seek a translator for at least one parent conference and/or phone call. (For obscure languages, you can sometimes find a refugee center or other public agency that can help). Reach out to those parents as well; do whatever you can to connect.

8. Your Language is Powerful
It communicates an awareness that there are many different kinds of families. Be careful not to assume a mother is, or isn't married, or even that if she is married, she's married to a man. Learn to ask open-ended questions and understand that sometimes parents/guardians might not want to share some information.

9. Ask Questions about the Child
"What kinds of things does he enjoy doing outside of school? Who are the special people in her life -- family or family friends? What do you think are her best characteristics? What was he like as a little boy?" Demonstrate an interest in knowing your student.

10. Listen to Parents
Really listen. They know a whole lot about their kid.

11. Smile at the Child When talking to a parent in front of a child, smile and make eye contact with the student to demonstrate that you care about him/her. Recognize what he/she has done well in your class in front of the parents. Then share a concern, if you have one.

Communities share the specific steps they took to maximize academic success by supporting parents and families.

How can I help my parents as a student

We’re all well aware that education leads to better jobs and higher income. Just as important, research also links education to reduced risk of illness, increased vitality, longevity and academic success that extends to future generations.

That’s why the situation for schools in Lawrence, Mass., was particularly concerning back in 2010. At the time, more than one out of every four Lawrence kids dropped out of high school. This led the Massachusetts Department of Education to put Lawrence’s schools into receivership by 2012, placing them under new management to safeguard state assets. The state-appointed “receiver,” was granted authority to develop an intervention plan to overhaul the schools through steps you might expect such as expanding the school day and replacing half the districts’ principals.

But the district also took one critical step by acknowledging that a family’s financial stability strongly influences how well children do in school—and whether they drop out.

This was especially relevant to Lawrence where the poverty rate for children is 39 percent. Poverty is one of the biggest health risks that children face today, predisposing them to a variety of challenges including exposure to environmental hazards (such as lead paint in older houses), difficulty accessing healthy food, and trouble getting to and from doctors’ appointments. The subsequent stress that parents face from being unsure if they’ll make ends meet spills over to kids. This toxic stress derails healthy development and increases the risk for developing chronic diseases in adulthood.

To directly address these issues, the district developed a new parent-support system that ultimately helped raise the high school graduation rate from 52 percent in 2011 to 67 percent in 2014.

For their efforts to create positive and lasting change, Lawrence and other communities across the country have received the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation Culture of Health Prize—which annually recognizes and celebrates communities that have placed a priority on health.

Here are five steps that Lawrence and other Prize-winning communities have taken in an effort to improve students’ lives by supporting their parents:

1. Recognize the link between student success and family financial stability.

People across a community need to understand that students do better when their parents are doing better. Your partners—whether in government, academia, healthcare or the non-profit sector—need to understand why parents’ daily concerns about money and stability matter. As Jeffery C. Riley, the state receiver and superintendent of Lawrence public schools says, “When parents feel secure with their own employment and livelihood, they are able to focus on the next crucial thing, which I believe is their children’s education.”

Plus, when families are in need, students can be bombarded with additional burdens that cloud their focus.

2. Create a hub for supporting parents and students.

Parents—and students—are more likely to access the help they need if it’s located in one convenient, easy-to-get-to place. Lawrence’s Family Resource Center offers, in addition to registration and school enrollment support, a range of services that include housing, employment and health care connections. At the center, parents or guardians meet representatives from the Greater Lawrence Family Health Center, who visit once a week and can help families enroll in or change their health coverage or even schedule appointments with primary care physicians. Parents in need of financial help can also make an appointment with a “coach” who helps them navigate economic issues. The center also builds ties with local employers, hosts job panels and helps people find work or connect to training and ESOL classes. With everything that they offer, both parents and students can feel adequately supported.

Another Culture of Health Prize Winner—The Bronx, New York—has created school-based health centers that serve as hubs for supporting families. Bronx parents don’t have to find a pediatrician or rush their kids to the emergency room for chronic conditions like asthma; their kids can get primary care at school. At the centers, family members can learn how to eat healthier and be more active. And kids can get in-depth medical exams, mental health counseling, dental care and reproductive health services.

3. Look to local and external partners for sustainable funding.

You might be thinking: A hub sounds great, but how would we fund it? Partnerships are the key. Lawrence received financial support for its Family Resource Center through a program facilitated by the Federal Reserve Bank of Boston. Partners in Lawrence designed the Lawrence Working Families Initiative, which was awarded a three-year $700,000 prize to bring the resource center idea to fruition.

In The Bronx, the New York City Department of Education partnered with Montefiore Medical Center to fund school-based health centers. Montefiore provides $200,000 in startup costs for each center. Public funding from Medicaid and government grants cover the rest after each center gets going.

4. Engage “parent ambassadors” to make connections.

Since parents understand what other parents are going through, Lawrence engages “parent ambassadors” in greeting visitors to its Family Resource Center. The ambassadors pose simple questions to spark discussion about everything from housing to employment or healthcare needs. Ambassadors also serve as connectors, answering questions and guiding families to appropriate (or needed) services.

5. Understand how a reimagined role for schools in family’s lives can impact health and academic success.

Schools provide an important connection to families, one that communities can take advantage of in their efforts to improve health for all. In Lawrence and The Bronx, schools work closely with partners to make sure students and parents get the all-around support they need. For Lawrence, the result was that upward trend in the graduation rate. For the Bronx, the impact has been seen in reduced emergency room visits, less hospitalization for asthmatic children and in one study of a teen sexual health program, reduced risky behaviors alongside improved academic performance and attendance.

 

How can I help my parents as a student

Abbey Cofsky is a senior program officer at the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Since joining the Foundation in 2007, she has worked on numerous public health initiatives including the Multi-state Learning Collaborative and efforts to advance national public health accreditation. Read her full bio.

 

 

 

How can I help my parents as a student

Kristin Schubert, MPH, is a director at the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Her role at the Foundation has focused on applying a public health perspective to the health issues faced by vulnerable populations, particularly vulnerable adolescents. Read her full bio.

 

 

 

Tags: Child and Family Wellbeing, Community Health, Health Care, Prevention, Public and Community Health

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