Should I be worried about my girlfriends relationship with her baby daddy

Home/Uncategorized/Baller Mail: “My Girlfriend Allows Her Baby Daddy To Spend The Night At Her House ‘For the Kids’ And I Don’t Appreciate Him Staying Over. What Should I Do?”

March 9, 2019 Uncategorized

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“So me and my GF have been in a relationship for a year and a half and we live in 2 different states. She has 3 kids 1 by me. Her 1st baby daddy has come over and spent the night a couple of times with out my knowledge. When I found out about him staying over I told her i didn’t appreciate him coming over to stay. So the other day she said he’s coming back with his brother and other kids to see his daughter who is 18 yrs old. I was like ok, not expecting him to spend the night over her house. Well he comes and I come back to the house only to find his stuff at her house. So I left the house. So I ask her why is he over here again and she says that he came to see his daughter and that she considers him family and that he can stay over her house. What should I do since she doesn’t respect my wishes?”

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Should I be worried about my girlfriends relationship with her baby daddy

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Apparently, I am (again) the only one with a dissenting opinion, but I'm going to give it to you anyway!

YOU seem to be VERY YOUNG! YOU seem to have a jealousy problem.

Have to disagree here, You don't have a jealousy problem, she has a boundary problem.

1.) What exactly is SO AWFUL about this? I'm not getting it! She asked him to take her to her grandmother's house, NOT out for dinner and drinks! And, BTW, she's not "the daughter", she's HIS daughter, she's THEIR daughter.

Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Particularly in this circumstance where there has been an off again on again relationship, contact should <in my opinion, only be related to parenting functions. Period

2.) OMG, it's a RIDE HOME, not a screw-job in the back seat! It's not even like he had to drive out of his way to do her a favor...they work right near each other. Again, I don't see the BIG PROBLEM here! She's TELLING YOU about these occasions, so SHE obviously feels she has NOTHING TO HIDE.
Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Particularly in this circumstance where there has been an off again on again relationship, contact should <in my opinion, only be related to parenting functions. Period

3.) WRONG! She took pics of him and HIS DAUGHTER. She took pics of her daughter's paternal relatives (grandparents? aunts/uncles?) WTF?!? What nerve she has taking pics of their daughter's relatives at her daughter's graduation? Who ever HEARD of such a thing??? She asked her BD to take pics of YOU (her significant other) and her daughter.

Pictures of the extended family is one thing, the way you describe her interactions is another

I think YOU need to MOVE ON. ........

How do I know if my girlfriend still loves her ex?

She holds on to mementos from her ex. You may also notice your partner looking at items, or holding them, and looking wistfully into the distance… suggesting your partner is missing their ex and thinking about times they spent together," says Brenner.

How do you date a girl with a baby daddy?

Things Might Move Slower Than You're Might Like. ... .
Plan Ahead. ... .
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Accept That Her Child's Father is a Part of Her Life. ... .
Her Child Always Comes Before You. ... .
Include Her Child Whenever Possible. ... .
Your Relationship With Her Kid Is On Her Kid's Terms..

How do I deal with my wife's baby's father?

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No Contact, No Conflict (Limit Interactions With the Other Parent).

Does baby daddy mean in a relationship?

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