Girl texts me then doesn t reply Reddit

Nowadays, girls are on their phones 24/7, there's no excuse not to answer relatively quickly. Stop making excuses for them, the bottom line is you're simply not regarded highly by that girl. That's a bitter pill you'll have to swallow. Calling them out on it politely will only work if you're close, otherwise she won't take your feedback to heart.

If you reverse the roles, would you ever take days to respond to a chick you like? Heck no, you would only do so if you don't care about them.

I literally knew a girl very dear to me who I called on the phone for hours on end a few times a week, then as soon as we met, went cold in terms of text replies and essentialy threw me in the trash. I was devastated. A girl that once replied promply now ignored me for days on end, I couldn't even get a reply asking to catch up over the phone. I accepted that this person doesn't give a flying fuck about me and stopped texting. It's brutal out there, but you need the strength to walk away and show you have worth, that your life isn't ruled by a certain person.

Been a lot of these in r/askseddit lately -

"Girl stopped texting, what to do?" "How do I get this girl to text me back?" "Texting went cold. Help!"

So, here is what to do:

Move on.

This is a great place to keep working your abundance mentality. There are so many people to text! She isn't that interesting of a person anyway if she isn't talking to you.

Instead of concerning yourself with how to get her to text back, concern yourself with your over all text game so the next girl won't go cold.

I know it sucks, because you really wanted to go out with her. It's why you want askseddit to help you out. But that is likely the exact same reason as to why it went cold - you were too needy, DLV, and she doesn't want to talk to you. But don't worry, because someone else does. Someone better.

First, a little background: this girl and I are friends, not close friends, we've only hung out a few times. I really liked her, but wasn't really getting the same vibe from her, so I didn't do much, until my friends kinda pushed me to make a move before I lose her completely and get doomed to the friendzone (I'm very good at that, unfortunately...). So I take their advice and ask her out to hang out some time, and she basically rejects me the nicest way possible. Ok, that sucked...well, whatever. I don't let it bother me too much, until someone told me the only reason she rejected me was because we're different religions. WHAT?! There are a number of reasons this doesn't make sense to me (for example, her ex was a different religion, but then again maybe that's why it didn't work out?), but I still try to just get over the whole thing. Anyway, schools out, communication between us basically nonexistent, besides one group hangout with friends. Anyway, fast forward, to a couple days ago, I wake up to a text from her that just says "whats up?". I tell her, and ask the same and she just says "nothing much"...ok, a fairly typical answer, but none of this is making sense to me.

This is where I need you wonderful reddit women to help me out! Why would she text me randomly with nothing to say? We've still been texting since then, but about nothing specifically, and I'm carrying the conversation pretty much. Being the guy I am, I like to analyze things, and figure no one does anything for no reason. I thought "ok, maybe she wants to ask me something, or wants to tell me something" but so far she hasn't. "Maybe she just wants to chat," that would make sense, except she literally takes HOURS between texts, which makes it difficult to hold a decent conversation. Sigh What do I make of this, ladies?

TL;DR Girl texted me for what seems like absolutely no reason, why??

So I'm kinda stuck in a situation right now as of now. There's a girl I don't get to see often at all (once a month?) and the only real way I can get direct one on one contact is through facebook/texting. Our conversations face to face and online are great, but eventually she'll stop replying after a certain amount of time. I know she can be busy and stuff but I still find it awkward, especially if if the last message sent was a question. I know it sucks to talk online but what do you guys suggest saying as the first thing after getting no response, be it face to face or online?

I have a crush on a girl and it is quite hard to read her. We have went out twice and the conversation goes really well during our meetups. I am quite a bad texter and am not good at keeping a text conversation going forever. However, at times I do text her, and it can take quite long for her to reply. For the most recent convo, it has been more than a day and she hasn't replied yet.

From your experience, is it still worth pursuing her? Thank you :)

Update: Thanks everyone! There is a mix of opinions regarding her behaviour. I am inclined to think she most likely don't like me in that way. I just want her to be happy and there is still this tiny hope that I can be part of the picture. I guess I need to speak to more people.

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