Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

I’m sure we’ve all heard the phrase "less is more." However, when it comes to applying hair products to my natural hair, I thought it was more was certainly the merrier.

Styling my 4B/4C curly coils has always meant mixing my favorite curl creams, gels, and serums to find the right combination. Because my hair is a mix of texture types, it means different sections need more product, moisture, and hydration than others.

Recently, when I visited my stylist for my curl-maintenance appointment, she noticed my scalp appeared drier in certain parts, and after cleansing my hair the first time around, she realized there was a product buildup. I had no choice but to tell her I’ve been scooping chunks of styling gel and stretch cream and applying generous amounts to my curls. This led me to ask: How much product is too much product and how has using too much affected my curls?

We chatted with Devachan stylist, colorist, and curl aficionado Nicolle Lemonds for the ins and outs of product usage. Keep reading for her expert advice on how to reset if you accidentally go overboard.

Meet the Expert

  • Nicolle Lemonds is a curl and color specialist with over 10 years of experience. She is currently a professional stylist at Devachan in SoHo, New York City.

Signs You've Used Too Much Product

If and when you’ve used too much product on your natural hair, some visible signs will tip you off. Whether you apply your product in the shower or not, one of the first signs is crunchy or stiff curls once they’ve dried. According to Lemonds, you may see this due to “product buildup in your hair from constant overuse, which can also cause dullness and decrease your natural shine.” If your hair seems drier than usual or lacking its usual luster, you may want to try reducing the amount of product you’re using on your hair.

The Correct Amount of Product for Your Hair

Some products, if not most, come with instructions to use a dime-sized amount of product or more depending on the texture and length of your hair. “It definitely depends on the desired results and texture of your hair," Lemonds explains. "If you have fine curls, you will need a very lightweight product so you won’t overload your curls and weigh your hair down. Thicker and tighter curl patterns will need more product if you desire length and definition. If you want more volume and height, with thicker hair, you will need to use less product as well."

When figuring out how much product to use on your hair, take note of the length and thickness of your hair, then use your judgment to decide how much product you’ll need. Lighter hold gels like spray gels or DevaCurl's Light Defining Gel work great for looser patterns. If you’re looking for a tighter hold, try using a thick curl cream like Pattern Beauty's Styling Cream. “Spray gels, which tend to be lighter than your typical gel, are great to minimize product usage. [Use] this or spritz, mists, creams, mousses, and spray leave-ins,” adds Lemonds.

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How to Rejuvenate Your Curls After Using Too Much Product

Noticing the signs early can help, but if they go overlooked, it’s good to know what can happen to your natural hair after consistent overuse of curl products. “Using too much product and improper methods of rinsing can lead to product buildup and lackluster curls," Lemonds explains. "Product buildup creates a film on the hair and prevents moisture and even water from getting into your hair follicles. Curls need water and moisture to remain soft and bouncy. The most obvious signs are dullness and a sticky feel."

If you feel like you’ve used too much product in your styling routine and can’t get the extra product out of your hair by using a spray bottle or light scrunching with a towel, Lemonds suggests rinsing your hair and starting over. If there is excessive buildup, then you’ll need to use a clarifying shampoo to remove it. 

Many people think that wavy and curly hair are the same thing, but they’re not. Don’t get us wrong; they’re both beautiful! But waves have different needs than curls, which is why a different hair routine is important.

Believe it or not, they are different things, and curly and wavy hair require unique care and different products. You need to follow a different routine to get the most out of your beautiful, natural waves.

If you have wavy hair and have started the Curly Girl Method, you may not get the best results. That’s because your hair actually needs different products and techniques!

Gladly they have discovered a new way to get amazing hair with the wavy girl method. Wondering which ones?

In this article we’ll tell you all about the Wavy Girl Method.

Also read: How to start the Curly Girl Method: steps for beginners

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What is the Wavy Girl Method?

The Curly Girl Method is a hair routine for people with curls, and the Wavy Girl Method is one for people with waves.

It’s very similar to the Curly Girl Method but there are a few slight adjustments that are needed to make it more suitable for waves, instead of curls.

You can see the differences in this image:

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

The basic principles of the Wavy Girl Method are as follows:

  • Try co-washing, if it doesn’t work for your waves use a sulfate-free shampoo
  • Avoid sulfates unless you are using it as clarify
  • Avoid silicones
  • Use products that are lightweight and/or weightless
  • Minimal heat styling tools, such as a hair dryer or straightener
  • And no chemical relaxers
The general rules of the Curly Girl Method are:
  • Co-wash with sulphate-free shampoo and conditioners
  • Avoid any hair care products that contain silicones or sulphates
  • Use lightweight products and avoid heavy products
  • Scrunch the products into your hair
  • Clarify once a month
  • Use minimal heat on your hair

It doesn’t matter which hair type you have. Oily hair, naturally wavy hair, a different natural hair texture of straight and curly hair.

Each curly hair journey is different. And we are here to explain different types of a curly hair method so you can explore a new curly girl journey. Call us your curly girl handbook :).

The differences between the Curly Girl Method and the Wavy Girl Method

Wavy hair has different needs than curly hair, so it’s important to have a different routine. These differences are mainly related to the natural oils that the scalp produces, and how easily they’re able to travel down the lengths of our strands.

This takes longer with curls than with straight hair. So for Wavies, who have less curls than Curlies, it’s easier for those oils to naturally moisturize the hair from root to tip.

That’s why as a Wavy girl you can achieve better results with the Wavy Girl Method than with the Curly Girl Method.

A lot of similarities

There are many similarities between the CG Method and the Wavy Girl Method though.

For example, both recommend the following: sulfate-free shampoos or co-washing, silicone-free conditioners, no heat styling tools (such as a flat iron or curling iron) and no chemical relaxers.

Buy CG approved products in our webshop

In our webshop for curls we sell different curly girl approved products for the Curly hair method and all the different curly hair journey that fits you most.

That aside, there are also many differences! We’ll list them below.

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

You can brush wavy hair with the Wavy Girl Method

When starting the Curly Girl Method, it’s recommended to throw away your hairbrush. When following the Wavy Girl Method, this is different: wavy hair can be brushed without significant risk of breakage.

Certainly people with wavy hair type 2a and 2b can brush their hair using the Wavy Girl Method.

With what styling tool can I best brush my hair?

You can use a Tangle Teezer or Denman Brush. Always do this before applying the conditioner or else you’ll probably comb out your waves.

See, the Wavy Girl Method isn’t that difficult at all!

Also read: Discover which Denman Brush you need

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Co-washing may not work with the Wavy Girl Method

The Curly Girl Method recommends to no longer wash your hair with shampoo, but start co-washing.

It’s a great way to preserve moisture, but for wavy hair this isn’t always the best choice.

Build up and wavy hair

You may experience build up over time, as your sebum plus the ingredients of your co-wash add up.

In general, if you have thick or coarse hair you can try co-washing, but if you have fine or thin hair it probably isn’t a good idea to use the Wavy Girl Method.

Especially in the summer months this can lead to limp, lifeless, weighed down hair. Then it’s better to opt for a sulfate-free shampoo or a low-poo.

How can I get rid of build up in my hair?

Like we said, products can build up over time. It’s important to give your hair and scalp a deep cleanse every now and then.

Either grab a sulfate shampoo or one that is specifically for clarifying, and make sure to use it at least once a month!

In our webshop we have our favorite products of clarifying shampoo you can try out.

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

But what if I do want to co-wash my hair

Want to try co-washing in combination with the

Wavy Girl Method? Choose a conditioner that you can also use as a ‘normal’ conditioner, just in case.

Or go for a consistent washday rotation, by doing a cowash after two low-poos.

You can then try to cowash every 3-4 washes and see whether it has a positive impact. You can brush your wavy hair.

Unlike curly hair that should be left unbrushed most of the time, you have a little more freedom with wavy hair.

Go find out and experiment

It is always an experiment. So use the Wavy Girl Method in different ways to find out which Wavy Girl Method style is the best wavy hair routine for you.

Also read: Everything you want to know about co-washing

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Wavies can use sulfates (in moderation) in combination with the Wavy Girl Method

Sulfates are banned within the Curly Girl Method routine but not for the Wavy Girl Method. Sulfates are ingredients that are often added to shampoo.

They ensure that your shampoo will foam nicely after contact with water. That foaming effect not only gives you a nice clean feeling in the shower, but also helps remove dirt, oil and dead skin from your scalp and wavy hair.

But that cleansing effect is actually too intense for your scalp and hair. Sulfates cleanse your hair so good, that they strip your hair of not only dirt, oil and dead skin, but also of the natural oils on your scalp.

And these oils provide hydration to the hair. Still, some people with wavy hair and using the Wavy Girl Method do need this from time to time to remove build-up from their hair.

Be gentle with sulfates

Try to do it as little as possible, for example once a month. In this way you can still try the Wavy Girl Method and check what’s best for you.

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Use a mousse instead of gel with the Wavy Girl Method

Many Curly Girls use gel to get hold and definition, but for Wavy Girls this often is way too heavy.

It probably will result in weighed down hair and build-up, which will likely make you wash your hair too often.

Mousse creates more definition for wavy hair

Therefore, preferably opt for mousse, which provides more definition, soft curls and no build-up. Don’t apply it too close to your roots, but about 4 cm from it, otherwise it will cause build-up anyway.

And especially go for lightweight products, because these provide more resilience and therefore more waves! Yay to the Wavy Girl Method!

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Pay attention to how you apply hair products when using the Wavy Girl Method

In terms of styling, curls and waves really need a different technique. For example: where a lot of Curly Girls rake their hair, most Wavy Girls can say goodbye to their waves if they rake.

The raking technique

Raking is a technique that you can use when applying styling products. You detangle your curls with your fingers, while at the same time distributing the product over the wavy hair, from the roots to the ends.

Wavies will destroy the clumps (curls that curl together or form one larger curl) and their hair will stay limp.

Instead of raking, divide the product over your wet hair using the praying hands technique and start scrunching. Be careful not to smooth your hair with this technique too.

The praying hands method

It’s not just curls that need to be quenched with moisture, waves do too! Apply a generous amount of a light but moisturising conditioner using the Praying Hands method, starting from the crown of your head to the ends of your waves.

Then detangle using a wide toothed comb.

While applying styling products to wavy hair, remember to use the Praying Hands method and not the raking method so as to prevent clumps from breaking and disrupting your curl pattern.

This should be followed by flipping your hair over and scrunching it up gently so as to preserve the clumps without shrinkage.

The ‘squelch’ noise is an indication that the hair is appropriately wet for the stylers to spread evenly and work well.

Also read: The main techniques of the Curly Girl Method

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Your Wavy Girl Method routine will change throughout the year 

Every season is different for wavy hair. Each season your hair has very different needs.

In the dry winter months, cowash may work best to keep your wavy hair moisturized, defined and bouncy.

But in the warm and humid months, this can lead to weak, lifeless, weighed down waves. So pay attention to the time of year!

It can change in a few weeks. The styling process will change, so the styling techniques will as well.

Change your routine according to the seasons

But the Curly Girl Method steps will remain the same. Only maybe with different products such as deep condition, curl cream, leave in conditioner, final wash of dry shampoo.

This can be very frustrating, but once you’re through one year, you know roughly what to expect. Be sure to make notes so you can read them back next year!

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

Does the curly girl method work on straight hair?

It won’t work because straight and curly hair differs in texture. For instance, silicones in caring products only benefit straight hair, but, at the same time, they won’t be healthy for curls.

Can I brush my hair when I have wet hair?

We advise only brushing your hair when it is soaking wet.

This reduces the risk of causing strain on your hair strands, which results in breakages.

It is possible to brush your hair when it is air dry or blow dry. But having dry hair can be possible harmful for your hair and result in damaged hair.

So to avoid that, just blow dry after brushing your loose curls.

Is gel too heavy for wavy hair

How can I safely air dry my hair?

When you are airdrying your hair with a hair dryer keep in mind to always keep on the cool mode. the airflow should be aimed towards the lower end of the spectrum to keep frizz somewhat under control.

But it is even better to allow your hair to air dry.

Whatever you do, remember to refrain from touching or handling your hair during the drying process as this encourages frizz.

As your hair dries, a gel cast will form on your curls, making them feel hard and crunchy. But keep in mind, this is a good thing!

What do I need to do when my hair is too dry?

It is possible that you have over-conditioned hair. Although curly hair tends to be dry and needs a lot of moisture, some products can overload it, especially if your hair is very fine.

If this happens, clean your hair with a sulfate-free shampoo and use lighter conditioners and moisturizers.

Do not use a deep conditioner too often.

We hope we can help you achieve the best method for wavy girls!

These were our tips to get the most out of the Wavy Girl Method. Feeling inspired and aren’t able to wait to start styling and wearing your hair wavy?

You can comment below and start talking with other wavy or curly hair girls.

Do you have any questions about the Wavy Girl Method? Let us know on Instagram!

87 Comments

  1. Andrea

    09/09/2021 at 19:34

    Hi!! So I’m new to this wavy girl thing. I’m a 2a I think, but I have done a lot of research, and tried putting gel in my hair but also put conditioner in my hair but it makes it super oily!! Is this normal? Also any other tricks and tips would be appreciated!! Thanks so much!!!

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    • Nienke

      10/09/2021 at 15:45

      Hi Andrea,

      Thank you for your message.

      For wavy hair I’ll recommend mousse instead of gel. Giovanni has a really nice mousse with protein (Giovanni Mousse Hair Styling Foam). Also Curls has a really nice mousse without protein ( Curls Avocado hair mousse).

      A mousse is lighter than a gel and wouldn’t make your hair super oily. I would also recommend to apply the mousse on wet hair for the best result.

      When you have more questions, don’t hesitate to ask!

      Kind regards,

      Team Kurlify

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  2. Kathy

    10/09/2021 at 23:43

    I am thinking of trying the wavy girl method but I am a little confused about the use of sulfates and silicones, do I avoid them both?

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    • Nienke

      17/09/2021 at 08:19

      Hi Kathy,

      Thanks for your message.
      If you want to start the Wavy Girl methode you have to avoid sulfates and silicons. We do recommend to use a final wash, this wash is a shampoo with sulfates (so that’s a bit contradictory). Sulfates are a tough ingredient that cleans your hair. It will wash out al the build up of silicones in your hair, so you can start the wavy girl methode.

      If you have more questions, feel free to ask.

      Kind regards,

      Team Kurlify

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      • Kathy

        19/10/2021 at 22:13

        What is the best way to sleep on wavy hair

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        • Jill

          23/11/2021 at 13:32

          Silk or satin. You can either opt for a pillowcase made of it or a hair bonnet. I personally use a silk hair bonnet and I like it

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      • Emily K

        10/11/2021 at 08:28

        I have 2b/2C hair (and I have A LOT of hair), but the top ALWAYS will dry pretty straight. What do I do with it, underneath is so nice but always hidden by my top layer.

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        • Ashley

          06/12/2021 at 21:11

          I would try cutting the top layers a tad shorter and potentially taking some of the weight out. Get a cut by someone who is trained with curly hair so that they can trim your hair to optimize your wave.

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    • Paige

      09/01/2022 at 22:36

      Sulfates are a cleanser, while silicones are there to smooth your hair. Some people really love silicones, but some people get too much build-up with them and end up with weighed down, dry hair. Silicones can help if your hair is prone to tangles and you have damage because of it, but you’ll need to be more aware of how often your hair needs clarifying than if you didn’t use them.

      Sulfates are too harsh for most people to use daily, but some people can use them occasionally to clarify and remove buildup. Some people don’t need them at all.

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  3. Margaret

    15/09/2021 at 02:26

    When I get up in the morning what should I do to my hair to look presentable? I’m a 2b-2c

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    • Nienke

      17/09/2021 at 08:25

      Hi Margaret,

      Thank you for your message.

      I like to spray a bit water in my hair to make it damp. Then I’ll shake my curls awake with my hands and my head up side down. You can also try a mousse like the Giovanni Mousse Hair Styling Foam or the Curls Avocado Mousse. These products are really nice (and not heavy) to use in your hair and start the day with lovely curls or waves!

      Kind regards,

      Team Kurlify

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  4. Michelle

    18/09/2021 at 20:11

    I appreciate you writing this article! Wavy hair is definitely different than curly hair. I have 2a-2b wavy hair. My question for you is can you recommend any over the counter sulfate free shampoo and silicone free conditioners that work well with wavy hair?Sorry if that’s in a different article I haven’t come across yet. I have used Jessicurl, some Bounce Curl, and Vida bars that are only sold online but they aren’t the best for wavy hair. I just want to go to my local store and buy something that will work well with my wavy hair. Any advice will be appreciated! Thank you!

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    • Nienke

      01/10/2021 at 13:51

      Hi Michelle,

      We’re a dutch company so I’m not sure what they sell in shops near you, but I can take a chance!

      Yari Green is a nice brand, I really like there protein free shampoo and conditioner called:
      Yari Green Curls Sulfate-Free Moisturizing Shampoo
      Yari Green Curls Hydrating Conditioner

      Also Shea Moisture has some nice products for wavy hair:
      Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Shine Shampoo
      Shea Moisture Yucca & Baobab Volumizing Conditioner

      In the Netherlands we also have brands called Love, Beauty & Planted, Nature Box and Garnier Loving blends. Those brands have several CG approved products (but not everything).

      I hope some of there brands/products are near by your local shop!

      If you have more questions, don’t hesitate to ask

      Kind regards,

      Team Kurlify

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    • sophie

      11/11/2021 at 14:59

      I use Palmers Sulfate free coca butter shampoo in the uk 🙂

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    • Hannah

      03/04/2022 at 23:58

      Apologies this is late, but NYM naturals has a shampoo/ conditioner line that are CG approved. There is also a website called curl scan where you can look up products to see if they are approved

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      • Crystal FrimpongModerator

        22/09/2022 at 10:36

        Hi Hannah!

        Yes! You can check it on this website: http://www.isitcg.com/. Just type in the product name and its ingredients.

        Hope this helps😊,

        Team Kurlify💜

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    • Sille Bobjerg Jensen

      05/09/2022 at 18:25

      Mousse do nothing for my hair and it doesn’t hold anything. I have used a gel from innersense, I create hold, but it also did nothing and didn’t hold my waves. So I was about to by a strong hold gel, Boucleme – Super Hold Styler. But maybe I shouldn’t?

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  5. Anne

    19/09/2021 at 00:47

    Hi! I have 2a-2b wavy hair. When I finish washing up my hair I usually apply leave-in cream (to hydrate) with gel (one of the techniques I’ve read about in multiple wavy hair blogs), and at first I am able to style some nice curls and clumps with the scrunching technique (although it can get messy and give me some frizz too), but after a couple of hours the most exterior layers of hair start to straighten up and they put a lot of weight on the deeper layers that form better curls, so I end up with a lot of volume, zero definition and a rough texture thanks to the gel (basically a birds nest on my head). I don’t get why this keeps happening because my hairs looks sooo curly when I’m styling it right after the wash up. Could it be that I have too much hair and it is too heavy for the waves (I use it really short and in a shredded haircut that I’ve been told favours waves)? I’m really frustrated because I think that I have some nice waves but I’m not coming up with a way to get the most out of them.
    Thanks!

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    • Luci

      28/09/2021 at 01:51

      I have the exact same issue! Interested in the response to your question. 🙂

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      • Lisa

        29/09/2021 at 20:54

        Same. I have long hair midway down my back, but it is thin (hair loss due to thyroid issues). I wash at night add a curl cream and then mousse. I plop it in a microfiber turban and sleep on it. Come morning I have well formed curls. My hair is still quite damp and I usually add a bit more mousse to make up for what absorbed during the night. I use a black orchid diffuser. I get some frizz but pretty decent curl/wave pattern (2B), as well but they don’t last. I’m wondering if the length is what is pulling the wave pattern out or I need different products. I grew up with straight hair and didn’t develop waves until perimenopause so this is a new journey for me. Would love to maintain the pattern that shows up immediately after removing the turban.

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        • Sarah

          13/11/2021 at 07:14

          I am not sure if we have exactly the same hair, but I’ll share what works for me. I have 2a/b hair that is fine and thin. When it’s really wet after the shower I used a lightweight gel and plop for about 10 minutes. Then I add a tiny bit more gel with wet hands and let it air dry, being careful not to touch it at all. I think the key for me is to let it dry undisturbed so the waves stay clumped together, otherwise it becomes a frizzy, fine, fly-away mess.

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    • Nienke

      01/10/2021 at 14:03

      Hi Anne,

      Thanks for you message.

      It sounds like you are putting too much weight in your hair or the balance of protein and moisture isn’t correct.
      Hereby two articles that might help you:
      https://www.kurlify.com/en/curls/moisture-overload-curls/
      https://www.kurlify.com/en/hair-products/what-protein-means-for-curls/

      I’ll recommend using a foam in your hair instead of a gel. I really like the Giovanni mousse or the Curls Avocado mousse.
      If you prefer gel, I recommend a light gel like the Jessicurl Gelebration Spray Island Fantasy.

      With waves you can sometimes overdue your hair with too much products, especially if you just started with the CG method. Your hair needs time to get used to the natural care, at a later time you can probably use more products and even get more curls. But for now my advice to you is less is more!

      Kind regards,

      Team Kurlify

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  6. Caroline Hunt

    20/09/2021 at 10:56

    This advice is so useful, I have been trying CGM for 3 months, and found everything I used made my hair lank, tangled and greasy looking. I have switched to low poo x 2 washes and co wash on the third, and stopped the Shea products and switched to lighter ones. I also don’t plop any more as it was causing too many tangles. This has made a huge difference- I’ll keep checking back for more advice, thanks!

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 09:51

      Hi Caroline!

      Thank you for your comment! We’re so happy that we could help you😊.

      Wishing you fantastic curls!

      Team Kurlify💜

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  7. Janet Harris

    22/09/2021 at 01:14

    What advice would you give for wavy girls when they go to bed? I don’t have a lot of hair, it’s 2b with some ?3a at the back of my neck. When dry it’s a bit longer than chin length so if I put it in a pineapple a lot of it drops out. I do put a satin bonnet on as well. Also, can I use a cowash conditioner as an ‘ordinary conditioner’ after shampoo? Thanks

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 09:34

      I would recommend medusa clipping!
      Medusa clipping is a protective sleeping style for short stranded curlies. Basically it’s more like a modified pineapple only for those with shorter hair that can’t be pineappled. You strategically clip sections of hair up and off your scalp using small jaw clips. It lets you avoid crushed or stretched out curls. Keeping your curl definition intact so you wake up to curls that need next to no refreshing and a ton of volume.

      Tip: Continue using the satin bonnet to be extra secure!

      Also, check out this video of this curly girl using the Medusa Clipping method: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nvw2oX9x_6U&t=59s

      Furthermore, I wouldn’t recommend combining cowash and shampoo. As the cowash already works as a cleanser for your hair. After shampooing, your hair needs moisture back so a regular conditioner is suitable. Moreover, when you cowash you don’t need another cleansing product, just cowashing is already sufficient! I would suggest using the one or the other. You can use both but on different wash days.

      Hope this helps you😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  8. Kathy

    30/09/2021 at 20:36

    I am about to start the wavy girl method, I want to know if it’s ok to use a leave in conditioner but nothing else.,no gel, mouuse, cream or anything

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    • Kathy

      19/10/2021 at 21:33

      Do I need to use a leave in and regular conditioner and mouuse or is regular conditioner and mouuse enough

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      • Crystal FrimpongModerator

        21/09/2022 at 10:24

        Hi Kathy!

        It is fine to only use a leave-in, however if you want your waves to last for a longer period I would suggest using a mousse as well. Styling mousse is much more lightweight, less likely to leave buildup on the hair than a gel, and provides just enough definition for wavy hair.

        Hope this helps you😊,

        Team Kurlify💜

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    • Silver

      18/02/2022 at 07:31

      Wavy hair tends to be straight, if you want your waves last longer you have to use mouse which isn’t so heavy, but I just use a cream and my waves don’t last which is fine for me.

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  9. Daleen

    11/10/2021 at 04:25

    Do you have any advice on how to care for your curls when swimming in chlorine pool 4x a week. Thank you.

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    • Sarah

      11/02/2022 at 05:02

      This is my question too! I’ve asked it elsewhere and didn’t get any reply. 😕

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      • Jamilla

        11/02/2022 at 07:48

        Hi Sarah & Dareen,

        Excuse for not responding!

        Chlorine is super bad for your hair. Make sure your hair comes into contact with it as little as possible. If your hair has been in contact with chlorine I recommend you to take good care of your hair by using a hair mask. Chlorine makes your hair very dry.

        Hopefully I have informed you sufficiently. If you have any questions, please let me know.

        Love,
        Kurlify

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        • Em

          28/02/2022 at 11:29

          I swim regularly (head in freestyle) and although my wavy journey has only just started (something like a 2a) I find by properly drenching my hair in freshwater before I go into the pool and wearing a swimming hat helps to prevent much chlorine getting into my hair. I used to have to use strong ‘anti-chlorine’ shampoos and now I can just co-wash when I am done with my swim.

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  10. Christine

    14/10/2021 at 09:03

    Finally! An article that makes sense as to why my 2b waves have never handled the curly girl method! I have been doing it all wrong! I have the Curly girl handbook, and the Silver Hair handbook, but still was not getting a good result. Products easily weigh my coarse hair down. Thank you so much for all the information! New routine from today for my hair!

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      21/09/2022 at 09:55

      Hi Christine!

      Thank you for your comment! We’re so happy that we could help you😊.

      Wishing you fantastic curls!

      Team Kurlify💜

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  11. Kathy Diane Harris

    19/10/2021 at 22:17

    What is the best way to sleep on wavy hair

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      21/09/2022 at 09:42

      Hi Kathy!

      I recommend pineappling (with a silk scarf), medusa clipping (with a satin bonnet), plopping or sleeping with a silk pillow.

      Hope this helps you!😊

      Team Kurlify💜

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  12. Aly

    26/10/2021 at 02:55

    Hi!

    I got 2b maybe 2c hair with a dry scalp and ALOT of hair. I’m also super lazy. What is the best way to start this routine?

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      21/09/2022 at 15:02

      Hi Aly!

      I would recommend using As I Am Dry & Itch Leave-In Conditioner. This product combats dry itchy scalp and dandruff. In addition, the product prepares your hair for styling and improves hair manageability. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/as-i-am-dry-itch-leave-in-conditioner/?vl=355-ml

      It is super easy to use!😉

      Team Kurlify💜

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  13. Vanessa Douaifia

    07/11/2021 at 00:33

    Hi! What a great informative post. I’ve been trying the CGM and I’ve had limited results. I recently got my first curly hair cut and she styled it so beautifully. I’m having a hard time recreating it, but I haven’t given up! My question is this. I’ve been trying to use mousse but the next day my hair feels so gross and dried out, how do I start again the next day without rewashing and styling? I don’t know what to do the days after my wash day. Up until 9 months ago, I was washing/conditioning every single day (I’m 41!)!! So to avoid getting back to washing all the time, I’ve been able to limit it to 3 times weekly, how do I restart and refresh after wash day?

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      21/09/2022 at 10:38

      Hi Vanessa!

      Thank you for your comment😊. Really, water is your best friend! All you need to do is fill your spray bottle with water and some leave-in conditioner. The combination of conditioner and water softens and refresh dry and frizzy curls. And there you have it!

      Hope this helps you☺️,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  14. Denise

    09/11/2021 at 04:31

    Can u explain more on why raking is bad?
    A lot of people on YouTube think otherwise and say that raking is good and that combing it with fingertips will make it lose curls. I tried raking last time and made my curls even more curlier.

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 10:53

      Hi Denise!

      Raking will destroy that wash day/style, especially if you have 2a waves. What raking does is break up the “clumps” of waves (which you want!), and literally pulls down the waves. While curly hair can spring back up, wavy hair stays limp.

      Hope this helps you😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  15. Veronica

    09/11/2021 at 23:06

    I’m a 2a/2b I’m new to this wavy hair scene and wanted to know if you could recommend some products for me such as shampoo, conditioner, hair mask and heat protectors ? I think based off my reading I have low porosity hair, that needs some moisture

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    • Amber

      02/08/2022 at 04:00

      I stumbled across this article because I’m searching for answers to the very same dilemma. I just began the CGM about 2 weeks ago. I have 2b/2c waves with some little ringlets here and there. I’ve been applying a leave in conditioner, curl cream, and a maximum hold gel (because that’s what all the articles told me to do!). I get amazing, beautiful waves and curls on my wash day and sometimes, if I’m lucky, on day 2 as well. But most of the time, my curls go limp, get frizzy, and tangled after that first day… and oddly enough, my ends get oily (?). I have always washed my hair at least every other day. Like you, idk how to make my hair look decent without starting from scratch. Hoping you found some answers or figured out it on your own. Hoping I do the same! Best of luck to you!!

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  16. Melizani

    10/11/2021 at 08:04

    Good day! I am a 2a hair type.

    Just want to know? After brusing, co-washing and foam mousse, do I just leave my hair to dry? or can I put curlers in to dry on it’s own?

    Kind Regards
    Melizani

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      11/11/2021 at 15:40

      Hi Melizani!
      Thanks for your question 🙂 I would recommend adding a light weight leave-in conditioner to your routine such as Kinky Curly Knot Today, Curl Flo or Novex Black. Air drying is definitely preferable for any curly or wavy hair type. If you use hair curlers without heat that is also totally fine!

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  17. Annapurna Dwivedi

    10/12/2021 at 12:04

    Thank you for sharing this with us!

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:12

      Thank you for your comment!

      Team Kurlify💜

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  18. Madi

    01/01/2022 at 17:52

    Does anyone have any recommendations for shampoos and conditioners? also, after I’ve washed my hair should I just rinse it out, put some mousse/gel in it and leave it to dry?

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      21/09/2022 at 11:36

      Hi Madi!

      To name a few:
      Inahsi’s Shampoo is a very good choice. This shampoo is very suitable for wavy hair. Inahsi is also largely made of natural ingredients. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/inahsi-naturals-soothing-mint-gentle-cleansing-shampoo/?vl=30-ml-sample

      Shea Moisture Manuka Honey & Yogurt Hydrate + Repair Conditioner. This conditioner is great for detangling and hydrating wavy hair. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/shea-moisture-manuka-honey-yogurt-conditioner/?vl=384-ml

      After you’ve washed your hair you should moisturize it using a leave-in conditioner. The Direct Leave-in Weightless Moisture is creamy, has a very light scent, and works well for all curl types. It’s light but still moisturizing enough to soften hair and help with detangling. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/giovanni-direct-leave-in-weightless-moisture-conditioner/?vl=30-ml-sample

      For more curl definition you can you use either a mousse or a gel.
      The Shea Moisture Coconut and Hibiscus Frizz Free Curl Mousse has won multiple awards for how well-suited it is as both a mousse and curl enhancer. But the best part is that this product is perfect for all hair types. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/shea-moisture-coconut-hibiscus-mousse/

      The Jessicurl Spiralicious Styling Gel defines and clumps curls without making them greasy. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/jessicurl-spiralicious-gel/?vl=237-ml

      Hope this helps😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  19. Jorja

    06/01/2022 at 18:54

    Hello!
    So, my hair is naturally wavy however, I’m unsure of how to “bring out” my waves and have them look nice. My hair is always frizzy, puffy, half wavy, half straight, my baby hairs are like coils and I can never get my hair to look okay. Naturally, my front bits if my hair look like they’re bangs, and they go super wavy and whenever I blow-dry my hair, it is so frizzy and puffy, do you have any advice on how to sort my hair out? It would help me a lot.

    Thanks, Jorja.

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 12:02

      Hi Jorja!

      I can relate with what you’re experiencing, as I have multiple curl patterns as well! Please know that it is completely normal to have this, everybody’s hair is unique! I try to imitate the looser curl to my tighter curls. Try fingercoiling the looser parts and scrunch them up a littler more so that it resembles the rest of your hair. To eliminate the frizz use either a mousse or a gel. Since, your hair tends to frizz up I would suggest using a gel because that is heavier (you don’t need a lot!). Use the prayer hand method to distribute it allover your hair and scrunch afterwards.

      For blow drying, firstly, prep you hair first with a heat protectant. Than use a pre-drying smoothing product. Apply this when hair is damp before your blow-dry—and you can use a tiny bit when the hair is dry too for extra shine and flyaway control. Furthermore, investing in a professional-level hair dryer will make all the difference you’re looking for, according to stylists. Dry your hair in the direction that it grows to reduce frizz. Use a bristle or ceramic brush. The type of brush you use while blow drying your hair can make all the difference when it comes to reducing frizz and accomplishing a sleek final look. If pesky flyaways and frizz are still making an unwelcome appearance, try using a light spray wax or a matte pomade to calm your hair.

      Read this article for a more in depth explanation: https://hellogiggles.com/reduce-blow-dry-frizz/

      Hope this helps😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  20. Chloe

    25/01/2022 at 02:33

    Hi, I’m a 2a/b and I’m just about to start the wavy girl method but I’m having trouble figuring out exactly how it works, for example: when do I brush my hair? How often should I wash it? As a teenager, I have never used gels or mousses, are they necessary? Sorry for all the questions, thank you! 🙂

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      21/09/2022 at 13:16

      Hi Chloe!

      Thank you for your comment😊. You can brush your hair after you have completely washed it. Wash your hair every 3-4 days. You don’t want to do this too much as it dries out your hair and strips it from its oils. Gels are not really necessary only if you aim for curl definition. Mousses however helps with frizz.

      Hope this helps you☺️,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  21. Pacman 30th Anniversary

    25/01/2022 at 09:04

    My hair is now less exposed to chemicals for healthy hair.

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:14

      Great to hear!!

      – Team Kurlify💜

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  22. Bree

    01/02/2022 at 17:27

    How do you recommend drying hair on a wash day? I know air drying is preferred, but my hair is long (bra strap length) and thick. If I wash it in the morning, it doesn’t dry on its own until the afternoon and going to work with wet hair isn’t really an option for me. (I’ve tried showering at night, but my hair is still damp when I wake up, the waves are uneven, and I have weird pieces sticking out near the scalp depending on how I slept.)

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 13:31

      Hi Bree!

      Microfiber towels are amazing at not only helping your hair to dry faster, but also in setting your waves. After you have applied your styler, flip your head over and scrunch sections from the ends up to the roots with the towel. You will need to move the towel for each new section to ensure you are working with dry fabric. Flip your head back, and continue scrunching, being careful to not disturb your wave clumps.

      Also, avoid using slow-drying styling products and swap them out with lighter alternatives. Gels, in particular, take forever to form a cast. If you have a cream-based leave-in underneath your gel, the drying time will increase exponentially. Leave-in sprays, which are light and water-based dry faster than cream-based ones.

      Hope this helps😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  23. Keeva

    07/02/2022 at 13:01

    Hey,

    Thanks so much for this article, I’ve just started to work on getting my waves back and this is really useful!

    I know you said it’s okay to brush wavy hair but when I brush my dry hair I tend to brush most of the waves out, even if I spray a leave in conditioner on first. Is this something that will get better over time as the waves improve?

    Thanks, Keeva

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 13:40

      Hi Keeva!

      You should be using a wide tooth brush with soft bristles so that it detangles your hair and also help to maintain the curls. When styling twist your hair with your brush for that extra curl effect 😉. Mousses also help to hold the waves!

      Hope this helps 😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  24. Jamilla

    07/02/2022 at 13:10

    Hi,

    Thanks for your comment and how nice that you are working on getting your waves back.

    It’s best to brush your hair when it’s wet, because when it’s dry you’ll comb out all the curls and of course you don’t want that! That’s why I recommend you to only brush your hair when it’s wet and then apply your styling routine.

    Love,
    Kurlify

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  25. cosyjewelry

    13/02/2022 at 04:29

    The curly hairstyle is very lovely

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:15

      For sure! 😍

      – Team Kurlify💜

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  26. Megan Lindsay-Bush

    27/02/2022 at 21:23

    Hiya, so glad I found this article. I think my hair is 2b but I’ve just started the CG method but finding my hair is looking straggly, the curls are separated and the underneath of my hair dries with a waxy/greasy residue. I’ve been using sulphate free shampoo, leave in conditioner and then a curl cream or a curl gel. Any tips? From reading this I think I need a mousse rather than a gel! Thanks

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 13:45

      Hi Megan!

      Indeed! Mousses are light weight and are less drying than gels. So, I think that will be the best option for you!

      Hope this helps 😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  27. Isabelle

    03/05/2022 at 22:03

    Hi
    I’m new to the WGM, but after I already read a lot about it, I think, I’m not too far away from a good handling of my waves. It uses to work really well for me, but since I’m off the pill, everything’s different… A lot of frizz and the hair feels and looks dry, my scalp is oilier than before (and it already was pretty oily before, but I could handle it with dry shampoo (mere corn starch!)). I tried using more of my mousse to help with the definition of the strands, and it did help a lot, but the rest of the problems stays. Now, I don’t know where to start changing something. I use only natural cosmetics without silicones, but the mousse and the intensive hair treatment I use (the latter like a Conditioner) have alcohol in them, of which I read isn’t good, and the shampoo has a sulfate, of which I read in turn is one that’s ok for wavy hair. Where could the source of my problems lay? What should I try doing differntly?

    I’d be terribly happy about some hints!

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 14:58

      Hi Isabelle!

      To combat frizzyness you can do multiple things. Here’s a great article with 20 tips on how to reduce frizz for wavy hair https://thecuriousjalebi.com/2017/08/06/20-tips-to-reduce-frizz-in-curly-wavy-hair/

      Here’s also an article from the same curly girl on how to reduce dryness! https://thecuriousjalebi.com/2017/07/11/frizzy-dry-curly-hair-tips/

      Hope this helps😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  28. pacman 30th anniversary

    10/06/2022 at 23:27

    I love curly hair.

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:18

      Here with you 🙋‍♀️

      – Team Kurlify💜

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  29. Britt

    23/06/2022 at 12:06

    Hi,
    I’m new to the WGM. I have thick, wavy hair- probably a 2a or 2b but, my hair also gets oily really quickly.
    Any tips on the routine or products I should use/avoid?

    Thanks!

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    • Kurlify

      27/06/2022 at 08:55

      Hi Britt,

      Thanks for your comment!
      For waves in type 2a and 2b, it is important to especially avoid using heavy products for your hair. This can cause your waves to sag. Avoid ingredients like coconut oil, castor oil and other heavy oils. It is best to use water-based products.

      It is also helpful to keep this in mind if you suffer from oily hair. Try not to skip wash days too often and wash your hair with a nourishing shampoo that focuses on thoroughly cleaning the hair.

      Hope this helps,

      Love,
      Kurlify

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  30. Christelle

    27/07/2022 at 19:58

    Hello, what do you recommend on days 2 and 3 to get nice waves? I have 2a-2b long layered hair and I put gel on wash day. Somehow the result varies from one time to the other but generally the waves are better on day 2 if I spray some water on it and scrunch but for sure on day 3 I have to tie my hair as it seems the waves cannot be ressusitated anymore and it just looks bad. Also, even if I only put gel on day 1, it ends up getting a bit sticky on days 2 and 3 without necessarily waving more. Any recommendations for me? Thanks!

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:27

      Hi Christelle,

      Thank you for your comment! I would recommend using hair mousses as it is not as heavy as gels. This means you can use it daily without getting too much build up and revive your hair when needed.

      Hope this helps 😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  31. Sille Bobjerg Jensen

    05/09/2022 at 18:42

    doesn’t hold anything. I have used a gel from innersense, I create hold, but it also did nothing and didn’t hold my waves. So I was about to by a strong hold gel, Boucleme – Super Hold Styler. But maybe I shouldn’t

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 14:27

      Hi Sille!

      The Boucleme Super Hold Styler is a great option! The gel is moisturising and has a serum-like consistency making it effortless to apply. Smooth and defined curls can be yours without any flaking or tell-tale stickiness. The gel dries to create a cast around curls, holding your style and curl shape with a lasting medium hold 😁. I would definitely recommend it!!

      Love,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  32. Marloes

    14/09/2022 at 10:58

    Hello,

    I always thought my hair was straight and just a little frizzy when it was humid. I noticed that my wet hair has some little waves. My hair is naturally blond. Very thin, but I’ve got a lot of hair. After finding out my hair is wavey I bought some products to help my waves. I use the super fruit complex shampoo and conditioner from Shea moisture. To style my (soaking wet) hair I use a little bit of curl cream and a handful of mousse. Both are from Kruidvat (cg-approved). After plopping my hair for 10-15 minutes I am very happy with the little beachy waves. But when I air dry or diffuse (low heat and low speed) my waves only hold for a few hours…

    What can I do to make my 2a waves hold?

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 14:21

      Hi Marloes!

      Try using gels! Gels have a stronger hold and will therefore make your waves last longer. I recommend the Jessicurl Spiralicious Gel for a good volume and hold. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/jessicurl-spiralicious-gel/?vl=237-ml
      Or the Eco Styler Argan Oil gel for more defined curls. https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/ecostyler-styling-gel-argan-oil/?vl=473-ml

      Hope this helps 😊,

      Team Kurlify💜

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  33. Elizabeth

    14/09/2022 at 19:20

    Hello,
    I’ve just started embracing my wavy (2a/b) hair after 25 years of straightening. It’s fine but there’s a lot of it. I bought the Curlsmith wavy hair starter kit and although the waves are the best I’ve ever had, it’s looking really messy. There’s loose hairs on the top (I guess frizz but it’s not all of my hair, just the ones on top) and it looks like I just woke up and didn’t bother to do my hair. I used a Curlsmith gel thing and it’s helped a bit but is there any way to make it look neater and lose that frizz on the top?

    Thank you so much; this article has been so helpful

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      21/09/2022 at 14:06

      Hi Elizabeth!

      Thank you for you comment! We’re so happy that could help you😁!!

      Wishing you fantastic curls😉

      Team Kurlify💜

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  34. Meenakshi

    18/10/2022 at 13:43

    Hi I have 2a wavy hair and I am new to the wavy hair routine. I tend to get an oily scalp two to three days after a wash. Please suggest what products would be ideal to try, particularly a lightweight leave in conditioner?

    Thanks so much!

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:46

      Hi Meenakshi,

      I would recommend using a final wash every now and then. This remove all of the build up oils out of your hair. You can try the Neutral Shampoo: https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/neutral-shampoo/?vl=30-ml-sample

      You can try the Giovanni Direct Leave In Conditioner 250ml: https://www.kurlify.com/nl/shop/p/giovanni-direct-leave-in-weightless-moisture-conditioner/?vl=250-ml. This is a light weight conditioner.

      Hope this helps!

      Team Kurlify💜

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  35. Bike Race

    01/11/2022 at 17:53

    Thank you very much; this article has been extremely beneficial.

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    • Crystal FrimpongModerator

      04/11/2022 at 11:28

      Thank you for your comment and we’re so happy to hear that!☺️

      – Team Kurlify💜

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  36. bob the robber

    03/11/2022 at 09:00

    A messy hair care routine. However, if I have curly hair I will definitely follow these procedures as well. Your article is great, I appreciate it.

    Should people with wavy hair use gel?

    Using gel in your wavy hair will hold its definition in place. It would be a shame to let your hair go limp after spending the time adding bounce and volume. Applying gel after using mousse will ensure that your waves remain styled to perfection all day and night!

    What should wavy hair avoid?

    Wavy hair products to avoid Knowing which products to skip is just as important as using the right ones. “Avoid products that contain salt, which will cause dehydration, and silicones and parabens that will coat the hair, weighing it down, and not allow active ingredients to penetrate the shaft,” Dear says.

    Is gel or cream better for wavy hair?

    Which Product is Right for Me? Curl cream should be used by those with naturally curly or wavy hair to help define and enhance the curl pattern, while moisturizing and conditioning the hair, Udoh says.

    Is mousse too heavy for wavy hair?

    Hair mousse is a lightweight product That's why it's mainly used by people with wavy hair, also called wavies. But it also is an ideal hair product for curlies who don't want to spend a lot of time on their hair. Mousse creates a slight cast, so your curls will dry faster than with gel.