My girlfriend deleted our pictures on Facebook

Guys I know it may sound silly that I'm so worked up over this since she is my ex, but it just stings my heart a lot.

The reason why it's kind of heart breaking is because they were really good memories of us and it feels like she doesn't cherish them anymore. I would like to note that we ended our relationship on really good terms and had great closure. She even gave me hope that maybe one day we can get back together and what not, but im trying really hard not to hold on to those false hope.

The thing that confuses me is why she deleted those pictures of us when we ended on such good terms. She had like six pictures of us together on her profile picture but only kept one them. Also every week she would slowly delete a picture at a time on Instagram of us. It just really hurts. Kind of feel like she is doing this so i wont notice and eventually all of our pictures will be gone.

This girl is the love of my life and I really believe she is the one. I feel like those pictures are the only thing that are holding us together and each time she deletes them its like she is slowly forgetting about me.I want to fight for her so bad but she said she needed space so I'm respecting that. we gone no contact for a month already. I want to contact her and ask her why she is doing this but i dont want to ruin my progress of NC. We were high school sweet hearts and been together for 5 years.

I miss her like crazy and looking at her facebook and instagram it looks like she is doing just fine without me and moving on. I know you guys will encourage me to delete her but like I said we ended on really good terms and I dont want to seem like an **** deleting her.

I was doing so well this month but whenever i see her delete pictures of us its like im going back to depression again. Sorry for all the rambling I just dont know why I'm feeling like this and just really needed to vent or have someone give me some advice on how to not get so worked up over it or why she deleted pictures of us every week and only keeps some?

#2

loydi

7 years ago

Same situation as i am facing right now, all of our pictures were deleted last week.it took her almost a month and a half to completely delete all the albums of us in her facebook, after the break up, ya stings but i am not going to ruin thr no contact

#3

Someone's ex girlfriend

7 years ago

Because she/I/we still care and it helps to delete your/his/their pictures rather than do what we really want to do, which is call or text you to talk about everything and nothing like we used to do. Why won't we call you? Because we have our pride and don't want to look pathetic. When we broke up, you didn't stop us from walking away. You agreed it was the right thing to do. You never contacted us, even when we sent you that one message about something that we didn't really need to msg about. Yeah you replied, but you didn't follow up, so we don't think you want us back. Maybe you still have feelings, but you don't feel it strong enough to come after us. So we try to respect that and do the sensible thing - we grieve the relationship and think about moving on.

If you want her back, you need to explain why you let the break up happen in the first place and why the reason you broke up is no longer an issue, and then give her a reason to try again. Have you figured your **** out? Because if not, shed be stupid to take you back. You dont have to promise to marry her, but you do need to let her know you're all in and ready to see where things can go, and not get all freaked out if it gets a little bit serious. Then follow through. If in the end you realise you aren't ready, break up for good and ever. If in the end it all works out for good and ever, then congrats.

#4

Al

6 years ago

Nah I don't think that's how it works. My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me... I loved the **** out of her but she killed it, if you think i'm gonna get on my knees and beg for her back your wrong. If she wants me back shes gonna need to go through hell to get me back. I'm confident when I say I was a kickass boyfriend. She messed up, she needs to fix it.

#5

Biffyjoe

6 years ago

I know this is,a year old. But my girlfriend started doing this and she came up with some ridiculous excuse when I asked her. It ended a month later because she had been lying behind my back for months, and spreading horrible stuff about me.

#6

Guest

6 years ago

Chicks suck. It's not what you want to hear but you need to forget her. If someone can ring you out so easily and can't see your value what's the point? I'm two weeks into no contact and I can honestly say I thought I was gonna die without her but 2 weeks later I don't really want her back but it still hurts. But everyday it's easier and easier. Plus I know she's trying to **** with me. Two days ago she deleted me on Facebook in the morning (not a big deal I wasn't getting her updates or anything) and she didn't get a response out of me so later that night about 12 hour difference she unfollowed me on Instagram but kept her page open for people to see. I think she was trying to get a reaction out of me. But Facebook in pretty sure she blocked me or something and I just noticed she deleted our photos. All that means is she's having a rough time moving on and she's not gonna be able to. I'm not sweating This chick cause there's so many better things out there. I dated this girl for 2 years! And I'm recovering pretty well. Don't get me wrong it still hurts. But also I know this **** will come crawling back. They always do 😋

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#7

Guest

5 years ago

Same for me, dated this girl for a year and a half, every 4 months she'd get weird and distant and dump me through text. 3 weeks ago she started to go again and wouldn't respond to texts or answer my calls so I broke it off with her, by the time I woke up the next day she had deleted and blocked me on fb. We've had limited contact since but she always said she wasn't ready to talk and today she deleted or hid some the pics of us. Was kind of crushed cause I really want her back. I'm not going to say anything to her but come on, if she deleted them they'really gone forever, that's why I haven'the deleted any

#8

5 years ago

me and my ex broke up a month ago she deleted a couple of the photos but kept the rest she blocked me and kept them up than readied me I found out she was talking to the guy that was **** me off all along so I blocked her on everything again and she just deleted the pics, we have mutual friends and they said they are not going to date so, do you guys think she has a new man or got upset after maybe realizing I blocked her and deleted whatever was left of us

#9

Dkckjcc

5 years ago

**** straight, right with you

#10

5 years ago

#11

Jwv08040

4 years ago

Currently working though the same situation where she deleted many photos of her and I. We were so close and as time moved on, she slowly grew away from me. Although it's only been a month from the breakup, I know it can be hard for many people to move on, and I know that she was the love of your life, and I feel the same way about my ex! But take it as a positive step forward towards being free and being yourself again, you will find the one that will make you feel loved more than she loved you, and she will come quietly and unexpectedly.

#12

4 years ago

Jwv08040 wrote:

Currently working though the same situation where she deleted many photos of her and I. ....

The thread is a year old, however you were sharing positive advice despite going through your own situation and that is good, not sure the ones who were affected will see it, but that must have been traumatic for you.

It is always hard when you put so much into the photos, they represent so much and then you see them disappear, your life is out there, you were comfortable showing the world, that this person means so much to you only to see it disappear.

How are you feeling now, still angry?

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